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Introducing Mayuri

March 23, 2015 by Zubin Hill | Comments Off on Introducing Mayuri

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Mayuri’s Executive Board Members. (My fellow Banter Blogger, Isha, is the one to the right of the middle).

Mayuri is “the Tri-College’s one and only South Asian fusion dance team!” This past Saturday, I had the enormous privilege of seeing their Showcase. It was entitled the “Heroes of TomMawrow” and the dances were organized to tell the stories of this heroic group of dancers–from their start to their disbandment to their regrouping in order to counter the Athena-defiling “Bad Girl.”

Are You Ready for Hell Week? (BMC 3)

February 18, 2015 by Zubin Hill | Comments Off on Are You Ready for Hell Week? (BMC 3)

Welcome to Bryn Mawr–where you go to hell for fun.

Ok, not really.

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The beauteous Hell schedules for the hellees in my Hell family.

Today we are going to discuss Hell Week–that venerated pillar of Bryn Mawr Tradition. The basics: Hell Week evolved out of plays the sophomores would throw for the first-years (I think, don’t quote me on that). Anyway, it takes place every spring semester in the third week of February. It begins on sundown on the Wednesday of that third week (i.e. today) and ends at sundown on the Wednesday of the fourth week. Hell Week is the true “welcome to Bryn Mawr!” for the frosh. Sure, you’ve been here a semester, but do you really know the place?

Those frosh who want to participate choose a heller (typically a sophomore but theoretically any upperclassman who has been helled her/him/theirself). The heller then crafts a hell schedule for their hellee of the different tasks they are to perform during Hell Week. None of them are obligatory and they are meant to be fun.

Examples of possible tasks: pretending to be a professor in class, creating a petition to make Chris Evans the school mascot, or singing to someone in class.

Hell Week is basically a time of being crazy with no judgement. It’s a time of welcome for the frosh and the first goodbye for the seniors. An important part of Hell Week is the Senior Bedtime stories–when seniors read bedtime stories in their original dorm (usually) to the resident frosh. For some Bryn Mawr is a second home. Thus, many of the bedtime stories my first year were about finding home. It’s not quite that for me (as I truly love my real home) but it is a fairly decent substitute. Where else could I get away with all the stuff I get up to in the dining halls? Where else would I have a good chance of getting into the school-funded summer activities and talking to my professors one-on-one? And, honestly, who else has a President who hosts late-night/afternoon Pop-Ups?

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Hell Week.

Some people say Hell Week is hazing and get really upset about it. For some Hell Week is the straw that broke the camel’s back and they decide to transfer (an issue I may discuss later). I understand what may happen for these discontents to leave or be upset. If you choose the wrong heller, then, yeah, it might be rough. But I feel there are always listening ears. Everyone isn’t going to endorse whatever is going on with you. For those others who couldn’t handle the insanity of Hell Week, then maybe Bryn Mawr wasn’t for them. Bryn Mawr isn’t about normalcy. It’s about being crazed and embracing that, about being different and unafraid, about being shameless in Traditions, class, and life. Living under the constant censure of society isn’t really that great a thing.

Some rules should be followed.

But none of them without acknowledgement of self or personal ownership of their value.

Me performing during Goodhart Performances.

Notes on Bryn Mawr Culture (Episode 1)

February 2, 2015 by Zubin Hill | Comments Off on Notes on Bryn Mawr Culture (Episode 1)

THE FREE BOX

Here begins my semester-long series geared toward taking you “inside the strange practices and behaviors of Mawrters.” I intend to reveal to you all our deeply prized secrets. It is, without question, the untold story of life on a Bryn Mawr. I know you didn’t ask, but you’ll get anyway!!!

So My Readers, I shall introduce you to the first important facet of Bryn Mawr culture: the art and joy of the Free Box dive.

What is the Free Box? You may ask. Well, this is what it is:

Quite literally, a cardboard box emblazoned with the words – FREE BOX. (I was too lazy to take a picture of ours. It wouldn’t have looked that great anyway. Besides, ye must experienceth le boite gratuit for yourself).

Whoohoo! I LOVE THE FREE BOX!

Precisely as the name describes, it is a box filled (when it’s near a break) with stuff Mawrters don’t want anymore. There is one on every hall. It may not look like much, but within are countless and unimaginable wonders! Now, I have attempted to go Free Box shopping increasingly often over my BMC career. Top targets: the Pems, Rock, and Rhodes N + S. The problem with me and Free Box Shopping is that I always end up feeling like a terrible creeper. I feel almost like someone is going to call Public Safety or be like:

“You’re not a member of this dorm, what exactly are you doing wandering about with your eyes searching the building?”

“Oh…Hi…I’m not doing anything. Just leaving…

And then I’ll scamper away embarrassed.

Nonetheless, I have curbed my fears and crept about in search of clothes. The best times are probably (ranked in order of stuff from least to most): Thanksgiving, Fall Break, Spring Break, Winter Break, and GRADUATION! Basically anytime prior to a break–the longer the better. My finds include: some spanking coral pants (given to my lil’ sis), a monochrome, front-button dress (given to my 2nd sis), 3 pairs of jeans (plum, forest

Free Box Fashionista!

Free Box Fashionista!

green, and blue) by reputable brands, knit booties, several tops, and a jumper. The picture on the left is comprised of entirely Free Box Finds.

And a Traditions sweatshirt (which sold at $30 originally and was just my size!!!) It has BRYN MAWR TRADITIONS and an owl carrying a lantern in all the class colors on it (since all that is not really visible).

My goodness! I feel at this point I may never have to shop again and instead just get presents from the Free Box (but really…)

 

 

Reflections

January 18, 2015 by Zubin Hill | Comments Off on Reflections

Now that I’m back on campus and my externship has ended, I guess it’s time for some REFLECTIONS!

I think my externship was fairly successful. I had to adjust myself to the situation, be in constant interaction with my extern sponsor, work on my researching + marketing skills, and learn how to operate in an office environment. My extern sponsor was pretty generous and made sure I had food and such. In retrospect, I can see how the whole “staying in her house” thing could have gone terribly wrong. Thankfully, being at her mercy was not akin to being at the mercies of an evil stepmother. However, it is a situation to which I shall pay greater attention next time.

I learned some facts about the publishing industry like: shipping worldwide is a pain, considering the distribution of possible foreign rights partners is important, and there are a lot of little websites to help manage a business.

On the more personal side, I also grew quite a bit. I had to give a constant report of my experience to my externship sponsor–something that at first challenged me. Eventually, I thought about it ahead of time and was able to provide decent answers (“I’m learning efficiency, independence, etc.) I’m certain this will improve my interviewing as I SUCK at interviews. I discussed politics with my extern’s husband and tidied up after dinner so I could be helpful. I learned that Quakers are hyper-passivists, have semi-silent meetings (thus explaining the origins of the game Quaker’s Meeting), and believe all roads lead to heaven/God.

I finally understand a couple of other things about Bryn Mawr just from learning about Quakers (we’re a Quaker school).

I compiled Wikipedia entries (which I had previously avoided doing because it sounded mad boring – but it was OK), wrote a sales email, and researched various things. I learned to multitask and keep composure in a small space.

In short, I learned “when to hold ’em, when to fold ’em, and when to walk away.”

[Yeah I know this is video has been posted prevously].

P.S. I’ve made a commitment to post more frequently and cut the size of my posts in half (or maybe just less…) I hope the difference is notable.

Salaam(i)

January 13, 2015 by Zubin Hill | Comments Off on Salaam(i)

Things began to heat up (figuratively, as the weather took a distinct turn for the extremely chill) once I got to D.C. Why, there were meetings, monuments, and Pho Eurasian.

As the extern, I sat in on two meetings and then did work during the final meeting of the trip. I’ve discovered that meetings are highly tiring encounters. You have to sit, prim and proper and largely silent. < = Things I almost never do. I am a habitual chair-sloucher/slumper/folded-legger, and a talking fidgeter extraordinaire. In any regard, I performed quite admirably. I managed to devote my attention to the goings on and produce coherent and vaguely intelligent responses when called upon.

I was not, thankfully, the stumbling mutterer from class who always gives the wrong answer when called upon. I should also note that I got to D.C. courtesty of my extern sponsor (she paid for the Amtrak).

The table spread (turnovers eaten)

The table spread (turnovers eaten)

I ate some delighful spinach and cheese turnovers  at Just World Books author, Laila El-Haddad’s house. And admired her seriously cute baby. I mourned for JWB’s new D.C. representative, bestowed of the name Steven Fake.  

I happily wolfed down vermicelli at PhoEurasian – because pho and I are close friends.

I had the opportunity to wander D.C. in search of monuments on Saturday. The air was crisply freezing and I briefly feared that the homeless man bundled in a mountain of blankets and trash bags had expired. (I even wondered what to do if he had – he hadn’t). I stumbled down 22nd Street, asking many passersby, “which way to the Lincoln Memorial?”

Is that...a vision from Egypt or that Tom Cruise Movie Oblivion?

Is that…a vision from Egypt or that Tom Cruise Movie Oblivion?

What I saw first was not the Lincoln Memorial but, rather, a mirage of an obelisk.

It was as though I’d inadvertantly entered a hallucination from Hildalgo or something. Much like a mirage, the Washington Memorial was in the annoying habit of disappearing behind buildings. Each time I wondered if, in my cold-induced madness, I had imagined it.

Not cute.

Not cute.

Naturally I hadn’t and there it would appear again. Somehow, I managed to reach it and take this less than glamorous photo:

I also reached the Lincoln Memorial but, by that time, my camera had died and refused to participate in any photo ops.

So that was D.C.

Of Monticello and Offices

January 7, 2015 by Zubin Hill | Comments Off on Of Monticello and Offices

Aren’t you all surprised: your trusty blogger decided to come back early. While the chances of human persons (aka non-droids) reading my next fews posts are likely slim, I shall persevere!

Now, I have chosen to address you once more because I’ve had a quite lovely externship opportunity. (Externship = internship for us ordinary folk). I’d arranged it a while back  through the Career and Professional Development Office and their Extern program. It pairs Bi-College students with either Bi-College alums or their parents; sophomores on up can apply. My externship is with Just World Books, a small, internationally-focused publishing business. I’m really hoping it will boost my chances of getting an ace internship/job over the summer.

It has been a real blessing for me. I went from doing this at home (in the company of sisters, but still):

To doing this:

I’m a picture of industriousness. What’s nice is that my fellow workers are kindly. I live in-house with the CEO and will be going on a business trip to Washington, D.C. tomorrow. Things have been pretty tame at Casa-Just World. I researched ebook converters, trolled graphic novel reviewers, and did sundry other tasks.

And, shocker of shockers, I actually seemed to have finished last semester well. Who would’ve guessed? I was pretty sure I’d wallow in a puddle of tears upon seeing my final grades.

However, I just received the syllabus for my Power and Resistance course and BOY does it look like I will be a puddle of tears in two weeks.